Wednesday, December 5, 2012

What I can only be

Let's face it, being a SAHM can feel like overtime with no vacation in sight. Sometimes it seems as if everywhere you go, someone is doing it better, or cuter, or smarter. It's easy to get caught in the comparison trap. You don't even need real people to do it either. Just spend any amount of time on pintrest, which I love, but also hate. You know what I mean. Everything looks so organized, so decorative, so perfect. I look longingly at super organized moms or really creative homeschool families..sigh. But then I remember the most important thing:
  I can only be what God made me to be.

I can only be what His plan designs me to be. I can only be what He has called me to be. I can try to be other things, but I end up "circling the mountain" until I have learned His lesson. He has a plan for me, a design for me, a course for me. It is my job to follow it, to the best of my ability. It becomes easier when I remember this. That God has called me to serve Him in this capacity, at this time. As much as I might wish He called me to serve in a decorative capacity or a super organized capacity, He has called me to serve Him in His way, in His time.
What I was called to do say, ten years ago, and the way in which I served Him is not the way I am called to serve now. It is such a rush of peace when I finally realize His calling at each milestone, finally transition to the next thing. It's like the fight is over, the war is won...for now. When I am fighting my calling I feel overwhelmed and frazzled. I feel unsatisfied and unsettled. When I realize I am literally swimming upstream, and I "let go and let God" it all works out. What a blessing.

And the God of all grace, who called you to his eternal glory in Christ, after you have suffered a little while, will himself restore you and make you strong, firm and steadfast. 1 Peter 5:10

Each one should use whatever gift he has received to serve others, faithfully administering God's grace in its various forms. 1 Peter 4:10

Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own. Mat 6:34

This month, as I focus on the birth of our Savior, and the plan God has for us in the coming year, I will remember these passages. Rejoice in being "only" what God made you to be!

Tuesday, October 2, 2012

October meal planning

Fall is here! As I am planning my meals for the month I am craving comfort food like pot roast and beef stew. So yummy and the leftovers are cost savers..it's win-win. Here is our meal plan for dinners this month.

October  2012
Monday
Tuesday
Wednesday
Thursday
Friday
Saturday
Sunday
1
Soup &
Baked potato
2
Tortellini & pesto,
Mixed veggies
3
Burgers on pretzel rolls, raw veggies,
fries

4
Chicken divan
Wild rice
asparagus
5
Spag. & meatballs, garlic bread, salad

6
Wild card
7
Chicken and yellow rice,salad
8 beef stew
Mashed potates
salad
9
Broiled tilapia,
Rice pilaf
broccoli
10
Grilled chicken, orzo, mixed veg
11
leftovers
12
Pastys
13
Pork chops, cider gravy, mixed veg
14
Lamb/beef stuffed bell peppers, salad
15
Pot roast, mashed potatoes, cali blend
16
Soup & baked potato
17
Orange chicken, rice, salad
18
Jambazeti
salad

19
Wild card
20
Baked chicken,
Stuffing, green beans
21
Fish sticks
Mac n chz
Cali blend
22
Pierogi casserole, salad
23
tacos
24
Ham, cheesy potatoes, green beans
25
leftovers
26
Vegetable lasagna
27
Tandoori chicken, rice
28
Steak, roasted redskins, salad
29
Potato soup, salad
30
Pizza, salad
31
Cuban sandwich, raw veggies









Lunches are usually leftovers or leftovers used in stir fry or quesadillas. We don't have a microwave so I usually make something quick. Sometimes we have sandwiches, but I like to use up the leftovers first. My previous post about planning details how I plan meals and make master mixes so I don't have to start from scratch every night. What are your favorite Fall dishes? I'd love to hear some of your family favorites. Enjoy!

Wednesday, September 12, 2012

The Good, The Bad, The Organized

Trying to keep everything running smoothly while homeschooling can be a challenge, at least it is for me. I have a detail oriented brain that's really OCD, so my "brain hurts" when things aren't the way I like them. That being said, I have children and a life, so my house doesn't always look the way I wish it would. I found that tasks were getting overlooked or given up on, and that made me even more frustrated and overwhelmed. I wanted time for personal reading and reflecting, homeschool planning, and just some hang out time with the kids and my husband. So I decided to make a master schedule that would help me see what had to be done and when.
First off, I had to make a list of everything I wanted on my schedule. All the jobs, chores, tasks, etc. that I wanted to be done on a regular basis. Then I had to divide them up into frequency lists. There are lots of master lists for these on the internet, but I made up my own using a grid. I divided the tasks into daily, weekly, 2x a week, monthly, 2x a month, quarterly, annually, and semi-annually. Finally, I put them all on a grid so I can see what needs to be done and when. This also allows anyone else (such as my husband or a visiting relative) to quickly assess what is required of the day. I have the grid posted on the inside of one of my cabinets so it can be checked quickly. I plan on making a Household Binder with all sorts of good info, and this will be in it. But I wanted a copy I can check off, so I put it in a page protector and taped it up.


Daily/Weekly Division

Monday
Tuesday
Wednesday
Thursday
Friday
Saturday
Sunday
1 load laundry
quick clean
dishes
empty trash
clean bathroom

1 load laundry
quick clean
dishes
homeschool planning
clean kitchen/vacuum
1 load laundry
quick clean
dishes
flush drains
clean living room
special projects (ASQ)
1 load laundry
quick clean
dishes
sort bills
empty trash
clean upstairs
1 load laundry
quick clean
dishes
ironing
vacuum kitchen
clean BR2
special projects
1 load laundry
quick clean
dishes
change kids sheets
clean BR1
special projects
quick clean
dishes
take recycling out







Quick clean: pick up stray items and return, wipe kitchen and bathroom surfaces, straighten couch and beds



Monthly
Monthly x2
Annual
Annual x2
Quarterly
wipe down ceiling fans
dry cleaning
mending



clean out car
change upstairs sheets
clean basement
blog
sort recipes into binder
shark wood floors
clean pantry and cabinets  (remove items)
wash windows, blinds
switch and sort wardrobe
wash dust ruffles
wash carseat covers
wash light fixtures
sort toys
clean oven (inside)
clean out refrigerator
wash comforters (as needed)
flip mattresses








The first page lists out the tasks and frequency of each. I included some "definitions" in case it is needed by a third party. Each day I can see what needs to be done. I am not a person who wants the hour by hour schedule right now, so I just have the list and I get it done when I can (during nap or morning reading, sometimes after the kids go to bed). You will notice "special projects"  and "special projects ASQ" on some days. Special projects are the monthly and 2x a month projects that need to be fit in during the week. These include wiping fans, mending, and cleaning out the car.  So on Friday and Saturday, I look at the "special projects" list for that week and see what I need to do during that time. Special Projects ASQ are special projects from the Annual, Semi-annual, and quarterly list. These include cleaning the oven and washing the windows.

Monthly Breakdown into Weekly Schedule


1x a Month Special Projects: Fridays
2x Month Projects: Saturdays
Week 1
wipe fans
clean, car, change MBR sheets, clean basement
Week 2
dry cleaning
mop wood floors, sort recipes, blog
Week 3
mending
clean, car, change MBR sheets, clean basement
Week 4
catch up
mop wood floors, sort recipes, blog





Annual, Semi-Annual, Quarterly Special Projects (ASQ)

January
wash comforters
sort toys

February
clean fridge
flip mattresses
March
clean oven
wash windows, blinds
April
wash comforters
clean cabinets
May
clean fridge
wash dust ruffles & carseat covers

June
clean oven
wash light fixtures
July
wash comforters
sort toys
August
clean fridge
flip mattresses
September
clean oven
wash windows, blinds


October
wash comforters
clean pantry
November
clean fridge
wash dust ruffles & carseat covers
December
clean oven
wash light fixtures





I know what you may be thinking...crazy train!! My mind really works best this way and this system has really helped. Some days I miss a few items, but they all get done by the end of the week. Good enough. I found that since I am cleaning more often around the house, it doesn't look as dirty to me anymore (yes, Mom, you were right). I do miss the "whole house is clean at one time" look, but I just can't dedicate the time to that. This way, it's mostly clean, most of the time.  I get a lot more laundry done, since it's not been piling up for days. Some of the items on the list are the children's chores (such as taking out recycling and emptying trash), so I get to check those off too..yeah! All in all, this system really helps keep the house on track so I can focus on homeschool, family time, and (gasp!) some personal time as well. I'd love to hear what works in your home to keep everything on track. Happy organizing!

Friday, August 17, 2012

The Homeschool Home part 3

In this section of the Homeschool Home, I will focus on bedrooms, laundry, and storage. I will discuss schedules and cleaning in a later post. Keeping your home running smoothly while maintaining your sanity can seem like a major challenge on some days. Having a plan is key. It always seemed as if laundry is/was going to take over my life. I have tried several options, and have found that doing a little each day works the best, setting aside a day to iron as well. We don't do a lot of ironing, so it's not a huge chore. However, it was getting overlooked when I didn't plan for it. I combined bedroom organization with laundry and storage because in my mind, they have to sync. Here is the plan we have for our family:

Bedrooms: children's bedrooms have clothing "boxes" or bins that are labeled with what goes inside. I sort clothing by: tops, bottoms, pjs, socks/underwear. In the winter, I add bins for sweatshirts/sweaters, mittens/hats/gloves. Children are responsible for putting away their laundry once I sort it. Older children will need to help sort laundry as well. Since I refuse to iron children's clothes, and folded laundry just gets "unfolded" we went to the bin system and it has been heaven. My two year old can put away her laundry. Adult laundry is sorted into his and hers laundry baskets and taken upstairs to our bedroom, where my husband and I each put our own laundry away. "Hang up" items are hung up in the basement, right out of the dryer. My husband and I take turns bringing it up to the closet. This helped alleviate the pile of laundry needing to be hung up. This is a good example of what I mean:
Once all of my children are in Middle School, I am seriously considering moving all the bins to the basement (where the washer/dryer is), sorting clothes downstairs, and everyone can pick out clothes from the basement.

Laundry: I do at least one load of laundry a day, and usually a special load for towels, potty accident bedding, or my husband's work clothes, which have to be washed separately. If I wait and try and do a "laundry day" I end up with a mountain of clean clothes piled on my couch for two days. As I mentioned before, I have a day set aside for ironing, and one day a month for mending. I hang up clothes right next to the dryer so they have a better chance of making it to the closet. Clothes are then sorted into piles that match the bins in the kids rooms, and they put their laundry away as part of their chores. Another good example:
My husband and I take our laundry baskets upstairs and put them away. All done.

Storage: Confession: I have more storage bins than anyone I know. When I moved this last time I re-worked my system and I love it. All clothing is swapped out twice a year for spring/summer and winter/fall. I don't have the closet space to store it all. Children's clothing that needs to be stored will go into a bin marked (as an example) "3T-4T tops, Boy" and given a number. I sort the clothes by tops and bottoms because my children seem to be different sizes in each. Dresses., Pjs, and Snowbibs go in the "tops" bin. Anything worn out is recycled into cleaning cloths or discarded, anything usable but not needed or wanted is given to charity or friends. Our budget is tight (like most SAHMs) and we choose to buy one high quality pair of shoes per child per season. Mostly, I buy Keens using a coupon or on sale. They are rugged, wash well, and are easily handed down. If they want flip flops or special dress shoes, they put them on their birthday list for my sister to give them (she loves to buy shoes) or they get hand-me-downs from their cousins. Adult clothing is sorted and then moved into the bins the current season's clothes came out of. Shoes are also sorted this way.
All other storage items (such as party platters, homeschool curriculum I don't use right now, holiday decorations, etc.) are placed in a bin with a number on the front. I keep an inventory on my computer (and on Dropbox for my phone) so I can search and find exactly what I am looking for without opening a million boxes.  Like this:


Having the inventory on my phone is great. When I am down in the basement or in the garage and need something, I don't have to go all the way upstairs/inside to my computer.

I hope these tips give you some food for thought. The next post will be our schedule! I'd love to hear some of your ideas and tips in the comments. Happy organizing!




Friday, July 27, 2012

The Homeschool Home Part 2

Keeping life organized is an often difficult and overwhelming task. Add homeschooling to the mix and it's tempting to throw in the towel. I touched on some organization ideas in part 1 of this post, now I will focus more specifically in some "hotspots" around the home. This post will focus on the kitchen. In later posts, I will focus on bedrooms, laundry, and storage. As a former teacher and overall OCD organized freak, I come to the table with ideas that I have honed over the years. Keep in mind: everyone has their own comfort level and every space is different. Really think about problem areas and what your level of "organized" looks like. Think about what you want to gain in that space and work from there. Also, knowing yourself is key. My brain just does not function when the house is in chaos, but as I have children, I have to re-evaluate what I want to spend my time on and what I need organized vs. what I can live with. Case in point, I moved a few months ago and am still working out the organization plan for this house. I use the same principals, but I have to customize how they will work/if they will work in our current space.
The kitchen can be the center of daily activity. Fun, food, and laughter can fill the room. It can also be a nightmare to organize. I am using the broad term of "kitchen" to include cooking, groceries, storage, and meal planning. One of the first things I do when I move into a space (I have moved soooo many times) is walk the room (s). Before items are moved in I visualize where I want things, what the space will be used for, etc. Currently I have very little counter space, no dishwasher or disposal, cabinets that go to the ceiling, and a small pantry with shelves and cabinets. I labeled each cabinet with a post-it before I moved items in so I remembered where I wanted to put things and then evolved those spaces as the months have gone on. I set up additional storage in the basement so I didn't need to use precious cabinet space for my seasonal trays, platters, and rarely used appliances (like a panini press). The key here: be flexible. Are there other areas you can use for storage such as under the guest bed, a basement or garage shelf? Are you better off borrowing some items rather than storing them (like the Ronco rotisserie? You know you have one). Utilize walls for vertical storage by using a railing system to hold cooking utensils and cookware.
Moving on to food. The best place to start is with meal planning. Three main options here (excluding ignoring it altogether until 4:30pm each day) are planning each meal (on a weekly or monthly basis), making individual items that can be combined in many ways, or a hybrid of these. In our house, we use a hybrid. I do not have the storage space right now to buy a month's worth of food (need another refrigerator), so we buy two-three weeks at a time. Eventually, I will shop just once a month. I plan the weeks in advance, using a "two weeks on, one week off" approach. I plan 14 dinners, and then one week of  "cooked ingredients". I plan only dinners, and as mentioned in another post, we have the same thing for breakfast everyday. Huge time saver. Lunch consists of leftovers in quesadilla or stir fry form (no microwave), with the occasional sandwich. We also get meat from a farmer in bulk and store it in the extra freezer. We will buy a whole hog and cow at a time and work from that, adding chicken and lamb as we go. I do not use coupons as a regular rule. We live primarily a chemical free lifestyle and there are rarely coupons for non-processed food and household goods. Finally, we buy produce at the farmer's market and/or grow our own. We supplement from the market as needed.
So, what does it look like? This month I made a grid with 14 dinners, ranging from orange chicken to spaghetti and meatballs. I try and put a stir fry meal in at the end of the week to use up leftovers, and we do a soup and baked potato night one day each week. Breakfast for dinner or sandwich night is also included. The third week, aka "the week off" begins as kabob or a big mess of grilled meats (chicken breasts, burgers, pork steaks, etc.) that we use as the basis for our meals for the next week. I make a batch of beans in the  crock pot, a pot of rice in the rice cooker and/or a pot of noodles. I make sure we have  a big bowl of green salad made, tortillas and fresh or frozen veggies (always a staple in our house) and we are good to go.

For the first two weeks I will process all food when it comes home from the store. All fruit/veggies are washed and cut up if needed (carrot and celery sticks, onion chopped, strawberries hulled, etc.) I try and partner some meals during the week so I can make mega batches of things. For example, if I plan for meatloaf, I will also plan for meatballs and burgers. I make a master mix, and divide it into zip bags and freeze. If I have extra, I will pre-cook some meat to add to spaghetti sauce or cheeseburger macaroni. If meat is purchased fresh (lamb and chicken) I buy in bulk, split into servings for our family in zip bags with a marinade, then freeze. We have seafood and/or a vegetarian meal once a week, sometimes both. When I make vegetarian lasagna, I do it later in the week to use up veggies and make extra to freeze for my husband to take to work. We make a double pot of soup a week, so we can freeze individual servings for lunches and variety in the weeks to come. If I roast or rotisserie a chicken, I save the bones and make stock for soup. Then freeze in appropriate sizes for later use.We also have a juicer, so we can use up veggies and fruit that way as well (think celery tops, leftover pineapple, beet greens, etc.)
Since my children have food allergies and we don't eat processed food, I make most of what we eat. That is why getting everything processed when it arrives home is so helpful. It saves time when I need to get lunch on the table or takes the "what are having for dinner" problem out of my mind. The kids see the "food calendar" posted on the 'fridge and they know what we are having without asking. I do swap some meals around if I don't feel like having "broiled fish and orzo" on Monday, but the structure is there. The third "week off" begins by grilling all the meat and veggies we plan on using. We will have kabobs or grilled chicken usually that first night. Following nights are put together using the pre-cooked ingredients, so we might have burritos one night (beans, chicken, rice and cheese), stir fry one night (rice, meat, veggies), burgers or patty melts, grilled chicken and pasta primavera or grilled chicken parmesan with noodles. It is a great way to take a breather in the month where I don't really have to cook that much, just warm up some ingredients. You can also do this with the crock pot. I will make a pork shoulder in the crock pot and have pulled pork sandwiches one night, pork tacos another night, Cuban sandwiches, etc. I usually break this up by broiling fish one night or having BLTs. When I make a pot roast, I make double the gravy and freeze it, so I don't have to make it each time I have a beef dish, or I can pull it out for hot open faced sandwiches. I also make some sweet treats to eat for the week such as cookies (make a double batch, freeze the dough in smaller portions) or cheesecake bars.
Sometimes we use the "make in advance" idea for breakfast/lunch, and boil a bunch of eggs in advance and my husband will smoke a salmon for lox and salmon salad sandwiches. You can also make a double batch of pancakes and freeze them, warming them up in the toaster. If I know I will have a super busy week, I will make a batch of pasta salad on Sunday, along with some tuna salad and some grilled chicken. I will make a big bowl of green salad and that will allow me to make any number of lunches and/or quick dinners on the fly. This is where the frozen soup comes in handy as well.
As for the pantry, I would love to organize that by grouping items together and labelling it all, but right now I have it grouped by what my two year old won't break or open (on the bottom) and what she can break or open (on the top). I hope these ideas give you "food for thought" (couldn't resist) and would love for you to share your ideas in the comments section. Watch for Part 3!